
I shared this story on Instagram tales per week or so in the past, however I notice that a complete lot of you don’t observe me on Instagram and solely learn my weblog, so let me fill y’all in on what has occurred with our bed room suite and the contractor I employed to get that undertaking began.
I do know the final time I up to date y’all, I shared that I used to be annoyed. Whereas I hoped the contractor’s a part of the undertaking would solely take per week, permitting me to get began on putting in the flooring final month, illness and different circumstances (the contractor’s, not ours) had delayed the undertaking. I used to be annoyed, and I shared that right here, and I do know that a few of you thought I used to be being ungracious for getting upset at somebody being sick. However simply know that I used to be actually holding again with a number of the data as a result of, at the moment, he was nonetheless working right here (form of), and I had excessive hopes that he would really end the work and be on his method.
Properly, it didn’t end up that method. I ended up firing him, and now I’m left with an even bigger mess than I had anticipated. It’s effective, actually. I’m absolutely able to doing the work that he didn’t get accomplished. However I’m nonetheless shocked at how all the pieces transpired, so right here’s the remainder of the story that I used to be holding again final time I wrote about it.
First, let me clarify that the individual I employed has accomplished a lot of work at our home prior to now. He was one of many guys who constructed the carport, after which he got here again and completed the carport final yr. He did the drywall in my studio. He was one of many guys who labored on the bedroom-to-master rest room conversion. And I’m positive there’s way more than I’m leaving out. When he first began working right here, he was really working for an additional contractor. And that different contractor stored his guys in line and on schedule. They might be at my home every morning at 7:50am to be prepared to begin work at 8:00am. They stayed all day, with an hour break for lunch, and labored till round 4:00 every day. When he was working for that different contractor, issues bought accomplished, they usually had been accomplished on schedule.
So when this man and one other one determined that they wished to go off on their very own and begin their very own enterprise, I made a decision to stay with them since they’re those who had accomplished the precise work on my home. I knew their work, and I trusted the standard of their work. Properly, that was an enormous mistake. Some persons are minimize out to personal companies and be self-employed. Others are minimize out to work for an additional individual and want that oversight. This man falls squarely into that second class.
The primary day he was supposed to indicate as much as work, he mentioned that he wasn’t feeling properly due to allergy symptoms. Since we now not have a scuttle gap to the crawl house (a brand new one might be added to the hallway flooring within the close to future), he minimize a gap within the flooring of the visitor bed room (i.e., our future walk-in closet and laundry room) to get a take a look at the plumbing. He mentioned he was going to buy the required provides, go to the physician for an allergy shot, and present up the following day to work.
A minimum of, that’s what he instructed me. He really didn’t present up the remainder of the week. So we had been left with this gap within the flooring for per week.

The remainder of the week, he was coping with sick youngsters, and so on. I don’t have an issue with individuals needing to deal with their sick youngsters. I absolutely anticipate individuals to place their youngsters first, particularly once they’re sick and no different childcare choices can be found. What I do have an issue with is when these people who find themselves anticipated to be at my home working must deal with sick youngsters, take youngsters to the physician, and so on., however don’t let me know what’s occurring. Once I’m anticipating him to be right here by 8:30 or 9:00am on the newest, and I don’t hear from him in any respect till after 11:30, and most of these instances are solely after I’ve texted to ask, “Are you coming right now?“, that’s an issue. That’s not a accountable approach to deal with enterprise.
On Friday of that first week, I texted him at 9:38a to see if he was coming since I hadn’t heard from him, and I didn’t hear from him till 11:13 after we had the next textual content change:

So the second week, he assured me that he can be right here vivid and early on Monday to work. He didn’t get right here at 8:00am, however he did not less than present up that day. However even that day was a large number. He introduced helpers with him that day. They confirmed up round 10:00, after which at 10:30 they mentioned they wanted to go to House Depot to purchase mud masks. I do not know why it takes multiple individual to make that journey, however all of them left. House Depot is a 15-minute drive from our home, and entering into to purchase mud masks takes about one other quarter-hour. In order that job, which evidently took all three of them, ought to have taken 45 minutes on the most. However they bought again round 11:45. Then they left at 12:30 for lunch, and didn’t come again till after 2:30! They labored for an additional half-hour, after which left for the day. And on the finish of the day, as he was leaving, he mentioned he’d be right here early Tuesday morning to proceed the work.
Tuesday morning, I he didn’t present, and I didn’t hear from him. So at 11:13am, I despatched the next textual content:

I didn’t hear again from him till 1:59pm. He mentioned that he had overslept (what?!). He apologized and requested me to offer him one other probability, saying that he’d have the work accomplished by that Friday. I received’t bore you with all the small print of the entire timeline however suffice it to say that the work wasn’t completed by Friday, and this kind of factor was par for the course for the remainder of the time he labored right here.
He begged me to offer him one other probability, and since I’ve identified him for a very long time now, I very stupidly gave him that second probability. However then after that, he didn’t present up on one other day when he mentioned he’d be right here.
On Friday of the following week, he requested if he might work on Saturday to complete up the work. He instructed me that he was going to work from 8:30 to 4:30. He confirmed up late on Saturday, after which at 2:30, he requested if he might work a half day on Sunday. I mentioned sure (as a result of I simply wished it accomplished!), after which HE LEFT for the day at 2:30 as an alternative of working till 4:30 like he mentioned he would.
I wasn’t right here that Sunday morning, however I left a key for him. Matt mentioned he did come and work for a few hours. I believe that was the tip of the second week. So by the third week, I used to be past annoyed. I simply wished the work DONE. The third week went about such as you’d anticipate, though they had been right here greater than they’d been the earlier week. However as soon as once more, he was alleged to be right here on Saturday to complete up the job, and that didn’t occur.
At 10:37am on that Saturday, after I nonetheless hadn’t heard from him, I texted him to see if he was coming. I didn’t hear again from him till 1:43pm when he instructed me that he was on his approach to choose up the trailer and head to my home. Then 45 minutes later, I bought one other textual content from him saying that he couldn’t discover his keys, however and as quickly as he discovered them, he’d head my method. That’s the very last thing I heard from him that day. I didn’t get a textual content. No telephone name. Nothing. Simply…silence.
By that time, I used to be match to be tied. So on Sunday night, I gathered up all of his instruments, piled them on the sidewalk in entrance of our home by the entrance porch steps, and despatched him the next textual content…

I truthfully don’t know the way he has any enterprise at this level. If that’s the way in which he treats a long-time buyer, I can’t think about that he treats new prospects with any extra respect. And what a horrible enterprise determination to deal with a long-time, repeat buyer with such disrespect! I simply can’t wrap my head round it.
The craziest factor is that he responded to that textual content saying, “Okay, I’ll have my spouse carry me within the morning to choose them up.” IN THE MORNING?! He had left nearly each instrument he owns at my home, they usually had been now piled in entrance of my home, and he responded that he’d be there the following morning? He was keen to go away the literal instruments of his commerce out in a single day, the place anybody might have stolen them? That response was simply as unbelievable as his habits had been the earlier three weeks. If somebody had instructed me that each instrument I personal had been piled in entrance of their home, I might have been there inside minutes to choose them up!
Evidently, he did find yourself coming that night to choose them up as a result of by the point we went to mattress at 10:00pm, they had been gone. Properly, most of them had been gone. He really left behind a ladder and an enormous fan that he makes use of to dry drywall mud. He simply left them!

And so they’re nonetheless there, two weeks later, proper subsequent to the pile of stuff he was alleged to haul away on his trailer! I truthfully don’t know what to do with them. I don’t need them, however I additionally don’t need to transfer them as a result of I don’t need to be accused of preserving his ladder and fan and never letting him have them.
In order that’s the remainder of the saga. Hopefully, my irritation at him makes much more sense now. I wasn’t irritated as a result of his and his youngsters had been sick. I used to be irritated on the lack of communication, and the dearth of exhibiting up when he mentioned he’d be right here. All it will have taken is communication. In case you can’t be at my home whenever you say you’re going to be there as a result of you may have sick youngsters, simply textual content me and let me know! However in the event you’re alleged to be right here by 8:30, and it’s a must to take sick youngsters to the physician, don’t wait till 11:30 to let me know! Don’t maintain me guessing for hours…or days…whereas I’m anticipating you to be right here. I simply can’t think about what had brought on him to go from being a great and dependable employee to this.
It’s unhappy that he’s burned this bridge as a result of, with the entire undertaking we now have deliberate within the close to future, I alone might have stored him in enterprise for a great deal of this yr. And I’m extremely annoyed that I now not have a go-to individual to name after I want work accomplished. Discovering a brand new, dependable contractor to do small to medium jobs is not any straightforward job. So this may increasingly actually be a “again to my DIY roots” form of yr.
(FYI, I edited the unique put up for extra accuracy after I realized I nonetheless had our texts.)
Replace: A number of individuals have requested if I bought my a reimbursement. I didn’t, and I didn’t ask. Amazingly, even with all the trouble and missed days, a lot of the work really bought accomplished. There have been just a few remaining small issues on the checklist that also wanted to be accomplished, plus the cleanup and haul away. These didn’t get accomplished, clearly, however I additionally nonetheless owed him a great chunk of cash when the job was accomplished. For sure, he didn’t get that remaining cost. In the long run, he’s the one who misplaced out. Not solely did he miss out on that remaining cost with only a few small jobs remaining, however he additionally misplaced a long-time repeat buyer. In the long run, the loss is his, not mine. And I’m absolutely able to doing these final remaining small tasks, and I’ve one other very dependable man who does haul away for me at a really affordable value.
Addicted 2 Adorning is the place I share my DIY and adorning journey as I transform and adorn the 1948 fixer higher that my husband, Matt, and I purchased in 2013. Matt has M.S. and is unable to do bodily work, so I do nearly all of the work on the home on my own. You can learn more about me here.
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